Politely turn down a request
Say no to an invitation, a job or a favour: friendly, short and without long excuses.
- Type
- Prompt
- Level
- Beginner
- Time
- about 3 min
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- an acquaintance from my sports club
- a potential client
- the school parents' committee
- a colleague from another department
- an agency trying to sell me something
- helping at the summer party on Saturday
- a job with a very short deadline
- giving a talk at an event
- meeting for coffee next week
- leading a working group
- I already have plans that day
- my schedule is full until the end of the month
- the topic is outside my focus
- I am not taking on new commitments right now
- no reason
Your prompt
Write a short, friendly reply to [Who is asking] that turns down this request: [The request]. Reason, if I want to give one: [Reason]. Thank them for asking, say no clearly and, if it fits, offer a small alternative. No more than 90 words, no excessive apologies.
Matching tools
Tools from our catalog that this prompt works well with.
- ChatGPT Prices and limits
- Claude Prices and limits
- Gemini Prices and limits
How to use it
- Fill in the fields or tap a suggestion. Leave out names, addresses and other personal data.
- Copy the finished prompt into a tool of your choice.
- Read the reply out loud. Does it sound like you? Then swap the sign-off for your own.
Works in these tools
Prompts work in many chat and generator tools. This selection comes from our catalog; prices as shown on the tool page.
- ChatGPT Free planfrom 8 USD per month
- Claude Free plan
- Gemini Free plan
- Mistral AI / Le Chat Free plan
Why does this work?
Thanks, a clear no and an optional alternative are the three parts of a good refusal. The word limit keeps the reply from sounding like a justification.
Tips
- If you might be interested later, ask for a line such as “Happy to hear from you next time”.